ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH OR MARRIED TO YOUR ENEMY? MAY THE LORD OPEN YOUR SPIRITUAL [INNER] EYES !

ARE YOU SLEEPING WITH OR MARRIED TO YOUR ENEMY?   MAY THE LORD OPEN YOUR SPIRITUAL [INNER]  EYES !

How Satan has taken over the soul of availing humans !  The enemy from within are indeed dangerously wicked operators, damages done by them are beyond immense in homes, relationships and especially in the lives of young children!if involved in the relationship. But perpetrators will never go free without receiving the arrows of their own wickedness back in double portion 70x7ways .RAP can not but state over and over again that  there is an erraticism in an individual when ticked off, these situations are real, happens daily in our societies and whether man or woman ; irrespective of career and size. When you start dating a person where he or she become an abusive lover with the behaviour intending to tie you so deeply to them that it may seem as if your next breath depends upon their love for you and presence in your life;  your once person of self-confidence, self-determination slowly becoming a needy, depressed, and insecure human being in your relationship– is a wake up call to seek counsel as your lover may be an enemy to your psychological well-being and the integrity of your soul.

Beloved, if a relationship is stemmed with an act that dominates every waking moment of your life, at the start of a relationship, to the point where you stop seeing family and friends, fulfilling destiny, and carrying out your normal way of life in drastic measure;Please seek counselling help ! malicious means mentally, spiritually in whatsoever wound is at large! You can never undermined their self-determination and fear of humiliation and abandonment of you leaving them, when you come to realisation of self that you are with a lover or married to who may be an enemy to your well-being and spirit. Please take safety measure to seek help ! ! ! 

With the above picture clips of case below , no one nor the law is interested in what led to the cause of action but the action.......there is no person that is worth you committing an unlawful and malicious means mentally, spiritually in whatsoever wound or cause any grievous bodily harm with intent... to do some... grievous bodily harm to death. You are only ruining your own life with a criminal record, be a killer or be murdered to detriment of children involved. It is better to stay sane and alive by leaving the relationship that bruise your spirit and body as temple of God ....ls it not written also in
1 Corin.7:12-16....To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13 If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you[b] to peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?.

Mark 3:25..."If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” 

Matt.10:36....A MAN'S ENEMIES WILL BE THE MEMBERS OF HIS HOUSEHOLD.
Shalom in gaining understanding to keep sane and alive!.. RAP Founder

Example - Highlights on how wife Appears At Own funeral, Terrifying her husband, Who Had paid To Have Her Killed!

One year ago a group of gunmen in Burundi was hired to kill this woman -Noela visiting from Australia. But the hit did not go as planned, leaving her with a chance to turn the tables on the man  who wanted her dead.".- her husband who was born in the Democratic Republic of Congo, Balenga Kalala had arrived in Australia in 2004 as a refugee, after fleeing a rebel army that had rampaged through his village, killing his wife and young son....Rukundo had met her husband 11 years earlier, right after she arrived in Australia from Burundi, according to the BBC. He was a recent refugee from the Democratic Republic of Congo, and they had the same social worker at the resettlement agency that helped them get on their feet. Since Kalala already knew English, their social worker often recruited him to translate for Rukundo, who spoke Swahili.

They fell in love, moved in together in the Melbourne suburb of Kings Park, and had three children (Rukundo also had five kids from a previous relationship). She learned more about her husband’s past — he had fled a rebel army that had ransacked his village, killing his wife and young son. She also learned more about his character.........."

A year ago, when she flew from her home in Melbourne with her husband, Kalala, to attend a funeral in her native Burundi. Her stepmother had died and the service left her saddened and stressed. She retreated to her hotel room in Bujumbura, the capital, early in the evening; despondent after the events of the day, she lay down in bed. Then her husband called.

“He told me to go outside for fresh air,” she told the BBC.

But the minute Rukundo stepped out of her hotel, a man charged forward, pointing a gun right at her.“Don’t scream,” she recalled him saying. “If you start screaming, I will shoot you. They’re going to catch me, but you? You will already be dead.”

Rukundo, terrified, did as she was told. She was ushered into a car and blindfolded so she couldn’t see where she was being taken. After 30 or 40 minutes, the car came to a stop, and Rukundo was pushed into a building and tied to a chair.

She could hear male voices, she told the ABC. One asked her, “You woman, what did you do for this man to pay us to kill you?”

“What are you talking about?” Rukundo demanded.

“Balenga sent us to kill you.”

They were lying. She told them so. And they laughed.

“You’re a fool,” they told her.

."We already have her," he triumphantly told his paymaster.

The phone was put on loudspeaker for Noela to hear the reply.

Her husband's voice said: "Kill her."

Just hours earlier, the same voice had consoled her over the death of her stepmother and urged her to take fresh air outside the hotel. Now her husband Balenga Kalala had condemned her to death."I heard his voice. I heard him. I felt like my head was going to blow up."Then they described for him where they were going to chuck the body." After two days in captivity, Noela was freed. "'We give you 80 hours to leave this country,'" Noela says the gang told her. "'Your husband is serious. Maybe we can spare your life, but other people, they're not going to do the same thing. If God helps you, you'll get to Australia.'".............Noela Rukundo sat in a car outside her home, watching as the last few mourners filed out. They were leaving a funeral — her funeral.

Finally, she spotted the man she’d been waiting for. She stepped out of her car, and her husband put his hands on his head in horror.

“Is it my eyes?” she recalled him saying. “Is it a ghost?”

“Surprise! I’m still alive!” she replied.

Far from being elated, the man looked terrified. Five days ago, he had ordered a team of hit men to kill Rukundo, his partner of 10 years. And they did — well, they told him they did. They even got him to pay an extra few thousand dollars for carrying out the crime.Now here was his wife, standing before him. In an interview with the BBC Thursday, Rukundo recalled how he touched her shoulder to find it unnervingly solid. He jumped. Then he started screaming. “I’m sorry for everything,” he wailed.But it was far too late for apologies; Rukundo called the police. The husband, Balenga Kalala, ultimately pleaded guilty and was sentenced to nine years in prison for incitement to murder, according to the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (ABC)

In a police interview, Kalala denied any involvement in the plot. "The pretence," wrote the judge at his trial in December, "lasted for hours." But when confronted with the recording of his telephone conversation with Noela and the evidence she brought back from Burundi he started to cry. Kalala was still unable to offer any explanation for his actions, suggesting only that "sometimes [the] devil can come into someone to do something but after they do it, they start thinking, 'Why I did that thing?'" 

On 11 December 2015, in court in Melbourne, after pleading guilty to incitement to murder, Kalala was sentenced to nine years in prison......"Further intensive reading visit BBC. or the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (ABC)

This also could have been a true story of a man hired to be killed by his wife as so many out there. Noela Rukundo  was lucky to stay alive to get her justice, but so many men and women today are dead like tragic stories with graphic pictures below, some in a mental home or diabolically or spiritually killed.... May the Lord open your spiritual eyes and send a helper to your situation and may you recognise divine helper when it comes before it is too late in Jesus name...Amen.....RAP

Justice of Married Woman Property Act 1882 IMAGE






The Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria 1999, sec 43; Married Women's Property Act 1882, sec 1; and Married Women's Property Law 1959, sec 1 (applicable in states created out of the former Western and Mid-Western Region of Nigeria, namely Delta, Edo, Ekiti, Ogun,  Ondo, Osun  and Oyo) guarantee this freedom. It has been a dilemma over years whether such rights are possible to be exercised and exercising this right is a separate issue. Married Women's Property Act of 1882: ... Marriage Act of 1990, Chapter 218 Laws of the Federation of Nigeria: - The married woman under the Act enjoys equal rights to the family assets acquired during the marriage and to be involved in their disposal during or after the marriage or upon the death of her husband (11).

The phenomenon of exercising this right was a reality on Friday 1st March 2019 by Chief Judge of Oyo State, Justice Munta Abimbola at a court held in Ibadan, Oyo State. Where a woman that has children for her ex-husband under a customary marriage before a house is built has the right to live in the house with her children even after divorce under the provisions of the Married Woman Property Act 1882,

A headline "Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her, Oyo Court Rules" [2/3/2019, Nigerian tribune] has been a shock to so many women in Nigeria, but the truth about Nigeria as a whole is that a lot of people do not know their rights and those that do, do not believe in the judicial system because of corruption. To those who still think exercising this right is a separate issue, should brace up with this precedence that has come to stay and set a lot of women free from systematic abused rights in marriages.

The case precedence states - The provisions of the Married Woman Property Act 1882 formed the basis of the pronouncement of the Chief Judge of Oyo State, Justice Munta Abimbola, on Friday in a property suit between a divorced couple, Toyin Arajulu, formerly known as Mrs Toyin James and her former husband, Mr James Monday.

The court held that “a husband who marries a wife and builds a house during the pendency of the marriage stands the risk of losing that house if he later divorces the woman who had children for him unless such woman, of her own volition, leaves the matrimonial home.”

Justice Abimbola, while ruling on the matter, emphasised what is known in law as the “palm tree justice,” which indicates that it does not matter in whose name the property stands or who pays what (on the property) and in what proportion as determination of such matters transcends all rights, legal or even equitable, but simply what order is fair and just in the circumstances of the case, citing the case of Home Vs Home (1962) 1 WLR 1124 at 1128.S 17 Married Woman Property Act 1882, which is a statute of general application.

Toyin Arajulu had filed the suit against her ex-husband, Monday James, who she married under Native Law and Customs in 1997 and for whom she had four children.She claimed that while she was married to him, they had put resources together and built two flats of three bedrooms at Ayedun in Akure, Ondo State and procured a plot of land at No 7, Fadana Biala Estate, Olodo, Ibadan, where they built a three-bedroom flat and a storey building which is still under construction before their divorce in July 2014.

She averred that before the divorce, her husband had moved out of their matrimonial home in Olodo but only came constantly to try to forcibly eject her and the children, usually accompanied by thugs who attacked her and her children. She added that on August 15, 2014, one of her children, Bidemi James, was wounded in one of the episodes of attempted violent eviction and the sum of N530,000 from her business taken by her ex-husband and his accomplices.

She claimed that he had concluded plans to sell off the joint property without her consent and had continued to victimise her and the children, asking the court for a declaration that the property is jointly owned by the two of them and an order that the landed property with the three-bedroom flat and uncompleted storey building be sold and proceeds divided equally between them and an order of perpetual injunction restraining James from harassing her and the children.

In his counter claim and defence, the ex-husband stated that when he bought and constructed the Akure property, his wife was a full housewife and had no contribution to the project, adding that the situation was the same for the Ibadan property as his wife only signed as a witness as she had no job and only depended on what he gave her to take care of the children when he travelled out of the country.

According to him, she was only trying to fraudulently take over his property, adding that her claims were vexatious, gold digging and an abuse of court process. He also asked the court to declare that the receipts of purchase his ex-wife presented were forged and that she should vacate possession of the property which she had refused to give up despite service of statutory seven days owner’s intention to recover possession and perpetual injunction restraining her from occupying the building.

Justice Abimbola, while ruling on the case, held that the landed property at No 7, Fadana Biala Estate, Olodo, Ibadan, together with the three-bedroom flat and uncompleted storey building is jointly owned by the two. On the second relief that both buildings be sold as requested by Toyin, Justice Abimbola held that, “I will not give such orders in respect of the two buildings. Particularly, Section 17 Married Women Law of Oyo state Cap 83, Laws of Oyo state 2000 gives a court the discretion as it thinks fit on the issues of title of possession to property.

“Section 18 also enjoins the court to treat such property as a joint property if the issue has to do with the maintenance of a matrimonial home. My order to this effect is that the completed three-bedroom flat on the land be retained as the matrimonial property and the four children are entitled as beneficial owners by way of a resulting trust created for them by their parents. The mother, as long as she remains unmarried, is directed to be in possession undisturbed in order to take care of her children.

“The uncompleted storey building is ordered to be sold by both parties and the proceeds divided in equal share. The half share shall go to the wife for the maintenance of the children. A divorced wife has no business being maintained,” Justice Abimbola held. The court also restrained James from harassing Toyin any further or disturbing the quiet possession of the property by her and the children, holding that, “the rationale is that a husband who marries a wife and builds a house during the pendency of the marriage stands the risk of losing that house if he later divorces the woman who had children for him unless such woman, of her own volition, leaves the matrimonial home. Also, a divorced woman is not entitled to any maintenance allowance but maintenance of the children by way of settlement.”

ANOINTING

Anointing is powerful.

You can anoint by oil, Holy Spirit, and word of GOD;

Through, the blood of the Lamb.

The book of Isaiah says, by anointing of the oil;

The yoke is destroyed. 

The book of Psalms says, by anointing my head with oil;

My cup runs over.

Day and night I anoint everything that concerns me, and 

My family, near and far.

Anointing broke the yoke out of my family.

It works by faith and confession of the word.

The book of 1John says, with the anointing

From the holy one, we know all things.

The book of revelations says, anoint your eyes with eye salve; 

That you may see.

Book of Mathew says, anoint your head; 

When you fast and wash your face.

Anointing breaks the yoke.

Anointing sets you on fire through the Holy Spirit;

To speak in tongues; in understanding

Only to our FATHER in heaven.

Anointing heals us. 

Anointing protects us.

Anointing blesses us. 

By anointing lives are saved.

By anointing, lives are delivered. 

By anointing, family are restored.

By anointing, barren have children.

By anointing, impossible is possible.

                                                            Overpowering Feeling @ 2001

 

                             Extract from POEMS OF HEALING EMOTIONS  (c) Sophy Wahab.